When you go to class, do you compare yourself with other students?
You may feel like you're behind some people, or ahead of others. It's natural to compare ourselves to those we see around us - we've been conditioned to do that by commercials & ads all our life.

  Friendly competition can also be a useful self-motivational tool - but use it wisely! If you feel you have superior skills, be sure to practise patience and kindness while waiting for others to catch up. And always show respect for those who have surpassed your level, and acknowledge their accomplishments with genuine pleasure. 

  The "family model" is a wonderful social construct: think of your fellow dancers as sisters (or brothers) - some are "older" and more experienced, others are below us in knowledge and maturity. But treat them as kindly and as considerately as you would your own siblings - be happy for them when they excel; compassionate when they fail.

  Striving to better our abilities motivates us to practise our dance skills outside of class so we'll feel better about ourselves when dancing in public. 

  What are some other ways to get & stay motivated?
 - Get new music or a video for inspiration.
 - Learn something new at a workshop or different class.

  Feeling aimless & unfocused? Set a goal or two - goals provide focus and a way to measure achievements.
 For instance:
 - master a new finger cymbal pattern to complement your dance; make 
up your own cymbals patterns for your favorite steps;
 - work up & polish that choreography you paid to learn (see "deadlines" 
below);
 - target specific dance skills: clean & sharp isolations; impressive level 
changes; controlled spins. 
What do those last examples have in common? MUSCLE STRENGTH. Here's where you get that "toning" effect you've been hearing about! Work on those skills several times a week. If you're taking class, don't count it as practise, count it as study. You need an additional 2-3 practise sessions a week to make progress.

  Got goals but still not motivated?

1. Figure out what time of day you like to practise best and put it on your schedule, either mentally or literally.

2. Talk yourself into it. Instead of thinking, "Time for an hour & a half of practise," say, "I'm going to go stretch out now, it'll feel good." After you're warmed-up and your endorphins kick in you'll probably feel like continuing.

3. Keep a written record of time spent in workout/practise/dance sessions to see what's really happening, and to keep track of what areas need more work.

4. Don't burn out - make sure you have AT LEAST one day of rest per week that includes no bellydance (whether dancing or reading/writing about it) whatsoever.

5. Sometimes just dance and let the workout/practise go that day!

6. Every year take 2-3 weeks off from bellydance (no workouts either). You'll literally "itch" to get back to it!

7. Get a classmate interested enough to practise with you.

8. Eat well and get enough sleep. Treat your body right - it'll respond to your loving care.

Last but not least: sign up to dance in a show - DEADLINES make great motivaters!